Engage a Woman’s Mind Before Trying to Engage Her Body
Women love to talk and they love to be heard. For most women, if you do not get involved with their minds, you will not be lucky if you get involved with their bodies. Men and women are very different here. To learn how to get involved with them, you have to learn how to talk to women. I will try to give you a few tips and hints.
When you approach a woman for the first time to speak with her, do not use a cheesy line. This may work on rare occasions, but for most women, it tells her that you lack originality and that you are a lewd conversationalist. Because women love conversation, they will not pay much attention to you if you are not original.
Learn her name. It's best to learn her name before you even give her yours. Go up to her and say, "Hello, what's your name?" While this does not seem to be original, it does show the woman that you are interested in knowing at least something about her. If she tells you her name "Hello, so and so," my name is "so and so". It's nice to meet you. "Now you've done two things to her, you've shown her that you're interested in her and you've used her name, every woman loves a man's name, so do not stop here but not three or four times, it shows that you are paying attention to her, you have learned her name and are using it, it is less likely that she will have to worry about being in Use the wrong name for an inappropriate moment.
Now that the names are no longer in the way, what are you talking about? Well, you have to find out what she's up to. That means asking her. But do not throw her 100 questions in quick order. Do not have a checklist of questions and just throw them away until you've gone through all the questions. Start with something simple, a trend news article or something about the environment around you. If you're at a busy bar, you can comment on it. Then listen, and I mean, listen to her answer. If she says something like "ya, I love the energy of busy places" and your next answer is "let's go somewhere quiet," you messed up. It shows her that you did not listen. Instead, if you respond with something like "I do not mind if places are busy from time to time, but I think they're exhausting" (if that's how you feel), then you've shown her that you've been listening and that you share with others a bit of the same feelings about things, or try to say something like "what is it about busy places that give you energy?" By repeating what she has said, she will feel that you are listening to her and actually taking care of her opinions.
You started the conversation, but where do you go from here? Actually, one can only talk about a busy place for so long. Now you can ask her what she does professionally. Listen to her answer and expand it. If she says she's a doctor, ask her what she likes best about the job. Ask her to share an interesting moment at work. It does not matter what she does professionally. You can engage them in conversation about their work by finding out more about their work. If she's in customer service, ask her which customers she likes to handle. Ask her to tell a funny story about a customer. If you want to talk to a woman with success, you need to show interest in her life.
Tip # 5:
When she starts to ask for you, answer her. Give her real information, but do not move on. Do not be negative. This is not an invitation to complain about your ex, boss, job, or kids. This is an opportunity to show her that you are a round man. A man who can engage them and protect their interest. Women do not like to get bored and a man with only one topic of conversation will bore a woman to tears. If you're a big gaming fan and can only talk about it, if you're not lucky enough to find a woman as tall as you, she'll get bored quickly. So have a few hobbies and interests. Maybe you read a book or two. Stay up-to-date on news, current events and current topics. Women love gossip, so know your entertainers and what they're up to. Yes, that is work. Yes, you may find it boring, but if you really want to learn how to talk to a woman, you need to be aware of the issues that most women follow.
A short list of Do & # 39; s and Don'ts:
1. Ask first for her name
2. Use her name in conversation
3. Ask about her, her profession, her interests
4. Do not forget her name
5. Do not pat yourself, especially not negatives
6. Do not bother with a single topic
7. Check the trend problems and current events. At least you know who's on the news
8. Ask open questions.
9. Do not be intrusive, if she does not want to talk about something, do not press the topic
10. Be positive, charming and funny. Women like to laugh just like men.
So if you get involved with a woman's mind, you have a chance to get involved with her body. That's really easy. In women, the attraction in the brain begins. If you can not get involved with your mind, you will not get involved with your body. So if you follow the advice above, you will learn how to talk to women.